1. Many African ladies will end up
singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a
lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only
to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity
entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s
mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike
cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed
by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due
to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a
destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family
setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious
to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a African
man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and
trouble than helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent
and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that
most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all;
reason they often times discourage their true loved ones to do away with
it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and
complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is
okay; but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded, except
you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards
marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every
Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose
phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not
be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at
the slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The
Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married
without contributing anything to the man that finally married her,
doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards
equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his
life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to
his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good
counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life,
lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a
liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do
you expect to find a husband when you still allow your clique of friends
to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is
not? When will you wake up and face the fact that those your best
friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry before
them or to marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During
Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need
to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body,
respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry
to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied
while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant
sex and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a
single man gets even the best and of course more of constant sex, good
food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so
tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have
given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his
girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that
you are prepared to cut down on sex supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc
once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his
girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your
attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have
derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than
modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than
adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most
times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be
attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative,
only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their
immediate sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds
of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like
to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look
sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom
and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’,
‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad,
but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that
will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after
accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging,
being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality
of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to
deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.
By: Tinashe Maruta
Source: http://olaedo.riktechnologies.com/9-reasons-why-some-african-ladies-end-up-single-for-life/
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